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The one Rated R movie that ALL young people have to see is BULLY.

This is the one Rated R movie that ALL young people have to see. BULLY.  There is no good reason that someone should not be seeing this movie no matter how old you are.  If you’re a parent and you don’t take your child to see Bully, then we can ad you to being a contributor to the endless bullying epidemic and teen suicides that have plagued our world.

Thank you Parenting.com for also endorsing this movie!

The Bully Project movie website here

A petition launched by an American teenager aimed at overturning the recent decision by US censors to hand a high-profile anti-bullyingdocumentary a prohibitive rating has gained more than 200,000 signatures.

High-school student Katy Butler, herself a victim of bullying, began gathering signatures just one week ago in response to the Motion Picture Association of America’s (MPAA) move to handLee Hirsch’s film Bully an R rating, which means many of its target audience will not be able to see it. The film’s distributor, Oscar-winning producer Harvey Weinstein, has also been vocal in his disapproval of the decision, threatening to boycott the MPAA’s ratings process in protest.

Katy Butler is a student in High School and more active in stopping bullying than these other play head school officials who continue to do nothing!

BULLY – COMING TO THEATERS SOON!

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Is homophobia disappearing?

BY TRACY CLARK-FLORY
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Teenage boys sitting on each other’s laps, exchanging back rubs and dolling out hugs: This was the sight that researcher Mark McCormack found when he went to a British high school to research masculinity.

It was a shocking departure from the aggressive homophobia that he himself observed as “a shy, geeky, closeted teenager” in the late ’90s and early 2000s. For his new book, “The Declining Significance of Homophobia: How Teenage Boys Are Redefining Masculinity and Heterosexuality,” McCormack spent the year observing social interactions and collecting data from three high schools in the U.K. Over and over again, he saw the same surprising scene: young straight men being physically affectionate and emotionally expressive with one another. What’s more, he found that homophobic behavior is a rarity and that when someone does express anti-gay beliefs, they “are reprimanded by other students.”

His message — which builds on that of his Ph.D. advisor, Eric Anderson, author of “Inclusive Masculinity: The Changing Nature of Masculinities” — flies in the face of a spate of horrifying stories stateside of bullied gay teens committing suicide, but McCormack says the U.S. is a decade behind the U.K. on this particular front. That said, he also believes that recent attention paid to gay teen suicides doesn’t accurately reflect the reality of homophobia in America today, or how much progress has been made: “We need to look beyond the worst-case examples to see what is happening in the majority of schools,” McCormack writes. ” We do no-one any favors if we only fight prejudice that is, for some, yesterday’s battle.”

Salon spoke to McCormack by phone from his office at Brunel University in West London about the disappearance of the insult “that’s so gay” — across the pond, at least — and why the U.S. still lags behind.

How has homophobia changed over the past couple decades in the U.K.?

In the past, homophobia has been hugely significant. Being gay was criminalized up until 1967, so it’s only in the past 45 years where it’s been possible to be openly gay. In the ’80s and ’90s, when I was growing up, there was Section 28, which prevented teachers from talking about homosexuality; they didn’t feel able to combat homophobia in schools.

It used to be in the ’80s that there was “homohysteria,” which is the fear of being socially perceived as gay. What boys needed to do was to make sure they weren’t seen as gay. It was kind of this game of tag where boys would deploy homophobia competitively because the person perceived as gay would be the person who was bullied and marginalized. What better way to prove that you’re not gay than by being homophobic yourself?

But you’ve found that that’s changed dramatically.

Only in one of the three schools I studied did I hear of any form of homophobic language, and that was heard twice by two different kids. Apart from that, homophobic language wasn’t used.

Why this dramatic change over a short period of time?

The gay rights movement has been very successful, even just in terms of gay visibility. When people see famous gay people, people whom they like who turn out to be gay, that has a huge impact. People are bigoted about people they don’t know; when you get to know gay people, the homophobia drops off.

Another key area of change is the Internet. The Internet has meant that closeted kids have the ability to make friends, to be more confident, to come out earlier. Social networking sites like Facebook ask you your sexual orientation, you click whether you’re male or female, and then you click whether you’re interested in men or women. When I was at school, that question wasn’t even asked — you were straight, or if you weren’t, you were pitied.

Part of the reason it’s spiraled so quickly is that as homophobia decreased, boys could kind of hug each other a little bit or say to their best mate that they loved them, and then they could kind of cough and talk about girls. Then they realized that actually it wasn’t disgusting or repulsive, and so that undid some of their homophobia a little bit more. It’s a virtuous circle.

What about those other letters in LGBT? How are things for lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in the U.K.?

I did focus on heterosexual people, really; the book is primarily about masculinity. So, it’s hard to say, but there’s been research out there saying that gay kids are the ones who have the best experience dealing with these issues.

In the U.S., we’ve had a terrible spate of stories about gay teens committing suicides. Is the situation that different in the U.K.?

There are two different issues here. The first is that the spate of suicides has become the media narrative; maybe it was guilt from not covering it 20 years ago. While [these stories are] terrible, and they show that homophobia is still out there, they aren’t evidence of increased homophobia.

The other thing I would say is that America is a country of polarities. The U.S. is further behind but things are changing; homophobia isn’t socially acceptable in the way that it used to be.

Why do you think the U.S. is so behind on this front?

It’s an interesting question. I think what the U.S. had in a much bigger way than the U.K. was the evangelical Christian movement, which really did politicize it. They used it as a wedge issue to get money to exert influence. AIDS also had a bigger impact in the United States; I don’t mean in terms of numbers of deaths but in terms of the stigma that AIDS is a gay disease.

One of the interesting things about the U.S. is that you now have over 5,000 gay-straight alliances, and we really don’t have them in the same way in the U.K. At some schools in the U.S., you’ve got active, powerful gay-straight alliances with out and proud gay kids, and then you’ve got other schools where that doesn’t happen and there’s quite a bit of homophobia. So there’s that issue again of there being polarities.

When would you say that homophobia peaked, culturally speaking?

It was pretty much 1987, 1988. It was the time of the AIDS epidemic. Before then, gays were considered the perverts, the people we didn’t know, and AIDS brought the recognition that it was the man you worked with that died of AIDS, it was Mark Hudson, it could be anyone. That’s when homo-hysteria really kicked in.

You argue in the book that in some cases, we’re fighting “yesterday’s battles.” Can you give an example?

Like the issue of [the phrase] “that’s so gay,” actually not all kids hear that as homophobic, while most adults do. There’s this big push saying that we’ve got to combat [such language] — well, I fully agree that it’s heteronormative, it promotes straightness in some ways, but it’s not the battle we should be fighting. We’re at the stage where most progressive people, particularly in the U.K., need to push much more for talking about different families in schools, recognizing gay history, that kind of thing. The battle we should be fighting is about sex education, looking at some of these issues more openly, more broadly.

Tracy Clark-Flory
Tracy Clark-Flory is a staff writer at Salon. Follow@tracyclarkflory on Twitter.More Tracy Clark-Flory
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Russia sees no end to Teen Suicides

No End to Spate of Teen Suicides

20:09 14/02/2012  MOSCOW, February 14 (RIA Novosti)
Russia’s Krasnodar region on Tuesday reported that a 13-years-old boy hung himself on Saturday, making it the eighth in a series of teen suicides throughout Russia in the past week.

 Also, the investigating authorities of the Tomsk region reported that a boy committed suicide by hanging himself.

 

Investigators in Bashkortostan on Tuesday started investigating the details of the suicide of a teenager who hanged himself on February 9 in the village of Iglina, apprently due to relationship problems.

A week ago, two girls, eighth grade students, committed double suicide after jumping from the roof of a house in the town of Lobnya outside of Moscow. Reportedly the girls had skipped classes for two weeks and were afraid about what would happen when their parents found out. The next day a 15-year-old teenage boy jumped out of the window of an apartment house in Moscow after, according to investigators, a family quarrel.

On Thursday, a 12-year-old resident of the Krasnoyarsk region was found hanged in his apartment and a seventh grader in the Tambov region was found after hanging himself.

On Saturday, a ninth-grade girl jumped from a window in the Perovo region of Moscow.

In connection with these events, the Russian Children’s Rights Commissioner Pavel Astakhov wrote on his Twitter page: “it is not a ‘suicide epidemic’ but a public tragedy.” According to him, “if we don’t solve the root of the problem and don’t create a government program we’ll lose a generation.”

About 4,000 suicide attempts are committed by teenagers in Russia annually and in about 1,500 cases the teenager dies, the ombudsman said.

Russia ranks third in the world in terms of the number of suicides committed by adolescents, with average suicide rate among the adolescent population being more than three times higher than the world’s average, according to UNICEF data published in November 2011.

While the level of adolescent depression in Western countries does not exceed 5 percent, the same level in Russia is hovering at about 20 percent. Statistics show that 45 percent of girls and 27 percent of young men in Russia have had thoughts of suicide, UNICEF added.

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