Monthly Archives: February 2013

More Single Gay Men on Valentine’s Day than those in Relationships

There are several reasons there are more single gay men than gay men in relationships.  The irony is that many of them want to be in a relationship, but are unable to stay with the same person longer than a couple of months.  A couple of months is not a relationship. That’s dating.  This means that you are perpetually and eternally dating around. 


Many gay men have this ideal fantasy of this perfectly built male Adonis figure as their mate.  The way that straight women fixate on their bodies and magazines like Cosmopolitan, gay men have the same obsession by sifting through built men online and raising them up on a pedestal.  It’s normal to find that attractive, but they take it up to an unhealthy degree that it damages any potential relationship they might have with a regular guy.  The problem is that it is not based in reality and does not exist.  If someone isn’t perfect they don’t talk to them.  They have an air of snobbery that is evident.  They are typically chatting with several people at the same time forming superficial connections instead of taking their time slowly building a friendship with one person. 


Many gay men tend to either be estranged from their families for not being accepting of their sexuality or have left their families altogether in search of a new city.  The problem with that is your family defines you whether you like it or not.  If you have no family ties or loyalty to your family and vice versa, then that will carry over into your romantic life as well.  Granted it’s not your fault if your family disowns you due to your sexuality, but unfortunately that does play a big part in how you will be in a long term relationship.  I always say when a friend is dating a new guy.  “How is he with his family?”


The other reason is many gay men have been used to having to go it alone that they are unable to merge effortlessly long term with a new partner.  They also have short attention spans and become bored with what they have and want to be with someone else.  It’s like a kid in a candy store grabbing anything and everything.  This also says a lot about your character which is not conducive to building a long term relationship.


There are also gay guys who only believe in Marriage Equality for equal rights.  Granted the Same Sex Marriage fight has turned into it being about not being treated equally, still at the end of the day Marriage Equality is about being able to marry the one you love and building a long term life with them regardless of their gender.  If you make Marriage Equality about equal rights then you are missing the point of it and you diminish the true meaning and the fight for what Same Sex Marriage is really all about.

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Kynon Johnson, Bonnie McCammon and Diana Medley of Sullivan High School in Indiana hate homosexuals

A group of Indiana students, parents and a teacher say they want a separate prom that would ban gay students.

Members of the group and their

A team of Valley high schoolers and parents rally for a separate prom that bans gays.

NBC 2’s Paige Preusse reports how Sullivan High School says there’s nothing legally they can do to allow it… several students and parents are taking matters into their own hands.  Several parents, students, and others who believe gays should be banned from the Sullivan High School prom met Sunday at the Sullivan First Christian Church.  “We don’t agree with it and it’s offensive to us,” said Diana Medley.

Never mind that we all find Diana Medley offensive for her negative warped views.

Their idea is to create their own separate…traditional prom. Students say there are several others from their high school who agree, but are afraid to take a stand.  This is of course not true.  Those who hate are not afraid to stand up and shout it.  They don’t have enough students at this Sullivan High School in Indiana who hate enough to make a stink about it, not to mention they’d be alienating some of their close friends in the process.

“If we can get a good prom then we can convince more people to come and follow what they believe,” said student Kynon Johnson.

And now they want everyone to know where they stand.

“We want to make the public see that we love the homosexuals, but we don’t think it’s right nor should it be accepted,” said Bonnie McCammon, a local student.  Is it me or did you notice the contradicting irony of that statement?  I love her, but I do not accept who this Bonnie is.

But not all in the community think what they’re doing is right.

“We shouldn’t be condemning people, and that’s what judgement is. Christ came to save the people not to condemn them.”

Local man Jim Davis says we’ve all sinned…so why should gays be treated with less respect?

“Love them as a person. You don’t have to love what they do, because the gays may not love all the mistakes you make,” said Davis.  Love what they do?  Oh you mean fucking each other right?

is a special education teacher in town. She doesn’t believe anyone is born gay.  Notice that Sullivan High School has a dangerously toxic woman running the special education unit there.  Whoa!

“I believe that it was life circumstances and they chose to be that way; God created everyone equal,” said Medley.  Diana Medley doesn’t specify what kind of life circumstances she is talking about that would propel someone to choose to love someone of the same sex knowing they would be open to ridicule, persecution and harm.

“Homosexual students come to me with their problems, and I don’t agree with them, but I care about them. It’s the same thing with my special needs kids, I think God puts everyone in our lives for a reason,” said Medley.  What kind of homosexual students would dare go to a woman like Diana Medley with their problems?  She’s the only one available?

“‘So the same goes for gays? Do you think they have a purpose in life?’  No I honestly don’t. Sorry, but I don’t. I don’t understand it. A gay person isn’t going to come up and make some change unless it’s to realize that it was a choice and they’re choosing God,” said Medley.  Huh?

Several local pastors support the separate prom movement.

“Christians have always been prepared for a fight. Jesus gave us armor for the front, not the back; we’re not running anymore,” said Bill Phegley with Carlisle Church.  What Bill Phegley of Carlisle Church doesn’t realize is that Jesus is also backing homosexuals since he created them as well.  Bill Phegley unfortunately is a dumb hick in Indiana who don’t know much.

Others, on the other hand, think they’re casting stones… instead of spreading love.

“The feeling of being loved and belonging is universal,” said Davis.

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Killer Cop Christopher Dorner doesn’t hate everybody and loves the gays

Ex-LAPD cop Christopher Dorner, who is accused of targeting law enforcement in a shooting rampage, left a lengthy manifesto that included his thoughts on the hot-button issues of the day, as well as shout outs to celebrities, politicians on both sides of the aisle.

Killer Cop Christopher Dorner doesn’t hate everybody as he has posted in his long manifesto of likes.  He praises some of the gays and slams that hideous Westboro Church. I don’t know about you, but if the gays needed someone on their side, wouldn’t a gun wielding anger ball be quite helpful?  At least its a switch for a change where needless and senseless attacks are typically being slammed on gays on a regular basis instead.  I still find it odd that now he’s risen to celebrity status.  Why do Americans do that?  A year from now they won’t even remember who he was.

Some of the things he says in his manifesto:

“Ellen Degeneres, continue your excellent contribution to entertaining America and bringing the human factor to entertainment. You changed the perception of your gay community and how we as Americans view the LGBT community. I congratulate you on your success and opening my eyes as a young adult, and my generation to the fact that you are know different from us other than who you choose to love. Oh, and you Prop 8 supporters, why the fuck do you care who your neighbor marries. Hypocritical pieces of shit.”

“It’s time to allow gay service member’s spouses to utilize the same benefits that all heterosexual dependents are eligible for. Medical, Dental, Tricare, Deers, SGLI, BX, Commissary, Milstar, MWR, etc. Flag officers, lets be honest. You can’t really give a valid argument to as why gays shouldn’t be eligible as every month a new state enacts laws that allow same sex marriage.”

“LGBT community and supporters, the same way you have the right to voice your opinion on acceptance of gay marriage, Chick Fil-A has a right to voice their beliefs as well. That’s what makes America so great. Freedom of expression. Don’t be assholes and boycott/degrade their business and customers who patronize the locations. They make some damn good chicken! Vandalizing (graffiti) their locations does not help any cause.”

“Westboro Baptist Church, may you all burn slowly in a fire, not from smoke inhalation, but from the flames and only the flames.”

“Hillary Clinton. You’ll make one hell of a president in 2016. Much like your husband, Bill, you will be one of the greatest. Look at Castro in San Antonio as a running mate or possible secretary of state. He’s (good people) and I have faith and confidence in him. Look after Bill. He was always my favorite President. Chelsea grew up to be one hell of an attractive woman. No disrespect to her husband.”

“General Colin Powell, your book “My American Journey” solidified my decision to join the military after college. I had always intended to serve, but your book and journey motivated me. You are an inspiration to all Americans and influenced me greatly.”

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Ex-gay Christian Advocate Discovered on Gay Sex App Grindr.

An “ex-gay” Christian advocate, who blogs about how religion saved him from a life of homosexual sin, was recently discovered on a gay sex hookup app called Grindr.

Matt Moore, a blogger for the Christian Post, writes extensively about how Christianity has helped him to turn away from a gay lifestyle. But, apparently it didn’t help him quite enough to steer him away from Grindr.

I am wrong in having been on grindr. I haven’t changed my views on homosexuality, the bible, etc.,” he said to Jones. “Creating a grindr profile and talking to guys on it was major disobedience on my part….disobedience to Christ. Disobedience to a loving and gracious God. Thankfully, I believe that He forgives me for this disobedience. I believe the blood of Christ covers this disobedience. And I won’t be on grindr again….ever.”

When attempting to explain his gay desires, Moore wrote, “I had a yearning in my soul that God had placed there for Himself, but I was perverting that desire and directing it toward people instead of my Creator.”

Although he “never really thought, ‘I want God to cure me of my homosexuality,'” Moore turned to religion for the cure. He says that every day he deals with desires, but claims it is worth the fight “because of the working of the Holy Spirit in my heart, I am able to see clearly that the homosexual feelings I have are a perversion of the gift of sex that God gave mankind.”

The poor guy is bullied and brainwashed by those around him that he actually buys what they are telling him.  I can tell you as someone who connects to Heaven and the spirit world on a daily basis that Heaven, God and Jesus DO NOT see homosexuality as a sin.  In fact, what they have told me is that they see no distinction and are happy to see two souls in love.   They say that we can set up our lives here as we choose. We have free will and some people, particularly the churches, live in fear and unfortunately choose to believe something about gays that is simply not true. You are all loved equally.   At the same time, when you seek out the pleasures of the flesh on a sex app like Grindr though, you are seeking to cover up inadequate feelings about yourself that can only be fulfilled by a love of self and of God.  This goes for heterosexual or homosexual sex addictions whereas a committed love relationship with another soul regardless of their gender is accepted.

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